Monday, October 31, 2016

You're amazing!

I just finished watching a video by spoken word artist Prince Ea entitled 'I Sued The School System'. He has another video which captured High School students reactions to the video. I have read many articles about the education system in the United States and they all say the same thing. Our education system is broken! People are unique and yet the system is the same for everyone. The school system teaches to the test and most of what is taught is not relevant to everyday life. Every person is amazing and unique and yet the school system doesn't act like it. I believe that our educational priorities need to be examined and changed to place greater emphasis on the individual. More emphasis should be placed on critical thinking instead of core competencies.

Sunday, October 23, 2016

The Law of Attraction: One man's perspective

When I encounter various principles I look for examples or applications of the rule in my life. I am particularly intrigued by The Law of Attraction. When I reflect on my own life I see countless examples of the principle at work. Much of the way this principle works is based on your expectations. If you expect something good to happen on a subconscious level then the Universe is obligated to comply. The most recent example of this was a class that I attended on chaplaincy. I struck up a conversation with a young lady who shared her story and offered to share her lunch with me. I thanked her for the generous offer, but declined. She did get me some of the continental breakfast that was served that morning and a bottle of water. This was another example of God sending His angels to watch over me. The key is to expect it, but not take it for granted.

Saturday, October 8, 2016

Alternate Reality

I find it fascinating that two different people can witness the exact same thing and have two different versions of what happened. Each of us have our own reality which is the major reason that the divorce rate is so high. We are each looking at the situation through our own glasses from a completely different world view. This fact is what makes us unique and puzzles psychologists around the world! Over time our paradigms change. Our world view shifts and our reality becomes altered. Is this a good thing? Share your thoughts on this alternate reality below.

Friday, October 7, 2016

The Compassion gene

I just watched a TED Talk on altruistic behavior and why some people are more altruistic than others. The lady who did the study researched psychopaths and what they lacked that made them exhibit psychopathic behavior She hypothesized that people on the other end of the scale and were altruistic exhibited physical differences. They had larger amygdalas than usual. I said that these people were different not only in things that could be seen, but in things that couldn't be seen like compassion. I even coined a phrase for it that I call the Compassion gene. Some people care and they literally can't help it! Other people want to care and they can't because they don't have the right genetics. People who are truly altruistic will help someone else at great expense to themselves.

Tuesday, October 4, 2016

The Workaround

When you achieve a goal in a way that you didn't think you would have to it's called a workaround. You would be surprised to find out that many of the most important discoveries are workarounds to things that were originally intended for something else entirely! Many vaccines used for treating one disease end up being a treatment for an entirely different malady. In life we often have to create workarounds to accomplish what we deserve from this life. Too many of think that we don't have the time, money or education to do what is necessary to achieve the goal. The question is are you willing to create a workaround or does the method have to be exactly what you think it should be? Life never turns out the way you thought that it would. Does it have to go the way that you planned or are you willing to do something different and create a new way?