God places certain challenges in our lives as a test. This is demonstrated vividly in the book of Job in the Bible. Some people believe that God repeats the test again until we pass it. I'm single and I'm a heterosexual man with a healthy desire for the female sex.
Scene 1: I enter the scene with my chest puffed out (pride) strutting around claiming that I keep my promise of celibacy intact on my own. I could handle the pressure because I'm a grown ass man! (pride comes before the fall)
Scene 2: I met a woman online and we begin to discuss things that we have in common healthwise. This website is not a dating site so I had no intention of trying to make a "love connection". Our online conversation transitioned to phone conversations and we quickly became fast friends. There was something unique about her and I was intrigued by her mind.
Scene 3: We quickly decided to take a trip and by the way, did I mention that she's married. Unhappily married, but married nonetheless. Kinda puts the situation in a whole different light doesn’t it? Don't judge me! Until this time I had a passing grade in this real life situation. What would you do?
Take a short trip first. A day trip perhaps. If that works out a long trip might be wonderful. Some people stay on marriages long after they have ended. Such might be the case with her.
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